Not as interesting as you might think... not on a par with suits being cut and expensive wine collections being left on neighbours' doorsteps.
Where emotions run high and the level of acrimony is extreme the combatants are rarely able to move on... we all know bitter, angry people we prefer to avoid...
Unfortunately, people who come out of divorces with an estranged ex who is full of anger cannot expect that things will settle down...
Real life example:
When a husband left his ex wife he requested 2 wine glasses from their extensive collection. He was allowed only one which he has yet to collect...
A sign that there was an objection to him sharing a glass of wine with someone special?
Obviously!
Is it ok for him to have a partner now 4 1/2 years later?
Unfortunately no...
Will it ever be ok?
Probably not....
Does it make any difference if the ex wife gets a boyfriend?
No!
Why?
Nobody knows....
If you feel any emotion apart from relief and sadness at your divorce then it is in your interest to seek professional help to get over any jealousy, anger, hatred or the need for revenge...
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