Divorce Solicitor, Mediator, Author, Advocate with 4 children, 3 wishes, 2 websites, 1 partner and 0 pets
Thursday, April 19, 2007
How do you make love last?
According to Dr Thomas Stuttaford in The Times there are 3 stages to a successful long term relationship which can be scientifically measured by functional MRI brain scans:
Stage 1
Lust. Lasts between 1 to 2 years (remember we are talking about successful relationships, clearly lust can dissipate after one date and many people have suffered that social worker term S.I.R. - shag I regret)
Stage 2
Acceptance. Lasts up to the eighth year. Couples acquire shared interests and goals and nest together.
Stage 3
Firm friendship. Starts from the ninth year and lasts a lifetime. Or not...........................
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