If more people could focus on the time when they were madly in love there would be less divorce. Next time your spouse drives you mad remember his wedding speech... or perhaps not. I read somewhere that there was a fight at 1 in 8 weddings... and there are some hilarious videos on you tube if you are fed up or bored.
List 3 nice things your partner has done for you today.
List 3 nice things your partner has done for you this week.
Still can't think of anything? Ok list 3 nice things you have done for your partner today, this week or even this month. Maybe you are contributing just as much to the disintegration of your relationship.
You can change your own behaviour far easier than you can influence anyone else's. So if things are tough try changing your own behaviour first. Can't be bothered? Try calling me!!!