Want Out?

Lots of people call me up and say they are thinking about getting divorced. I usually tell these people to try to change something else, their job, their relationship (go to counselling, do something different together, be nice to each other), their social life. At this stage there is still a chance to save your marriage.

There is a big difference between thinking about getting divorced, because you're bored, because you fancy someone else, because your partner has put on weight and you don't fancy them any more, etc and knowing that you want a divorce........